What is Homosexuality

I come from one field that is very interested in the meaning of words, both where they came from and where they are going.  I am now in a field that is very concerned with understanding how people think about things so we can use that to our advantage.  Because of my background, and my analytical nature, I tend to analyze things, a lot.  I am not alone in this.  There are whole professions who do nothing but analyze.  From soil science to marketing intelligence, everyone wants to understand exactly what it is we’re all talking about.

Thing is, no one ever wants to have a conversation about homosexuality. 

The first time – didn’t fit the fantasy…

Most of the time when I would be chatting with men online, a common means of arousal was through story telling.  Everyone seemed to be interested in the other person’s first experience with sex.  There always seemed to be a draw to the beginning of ones path into homosexuality, as if it was a rite of initiation.

From the guy who was the willing victim of statutory rape at the hands of his high school football coach, to the one who found a random hookup in a park at night, the majority of the stories I heard were not ones of love, or of commitment.  Neither was mine.